I was born in Blytheville as a child I wanted to stay, but we moved away when I was growing up I have always dreamed of getting married one day, having a family, and going back to live there, the day came. I grew up and got married. I asked my wife if she wanted to moved to Blytheville, so we can raise our children there in the South.  She said, let’s move, just two words she spoke so finally, the day came and we move. When we got there, we had no house to move our things into, so I gave most of our things away. My mom’s parents said that we could stay at their house for as long as we wanted to. My grandparents had a large house, only two were staying there my grandfather who we called Big daddy, and my grandmother who we called Big Momma. That’s what we have always called my mom parents. A few days later, I went out looking for a job while driving around, I stopped to visit my dad’s parents, Grandmamma and Grandpapa. My cousin was there visiting them around the same time I stopped by, I asked him about work he started telling me about his job, and they were hiring. I asked him what kind of work he did. He said that he drove a garbage truck for a private company and he was in charge of the daily trash pickup for the residents who lived on the bases. the next day he introduced me to his supervisor and I was hired on